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  • the word breathe as concept in saving earth
    Real Life

    Don’t Hold Your Breath – Just Breathe!

    Byemilymingledorff June 8, 2023June 10, 2023

    What do you do when you’re nervous? Mad? Lost? Confused? Whatever you do, don’t hold your breath! I am 49 years old and just realized I hold my breath when I get emotional. That’s pretty much…all the time. It’s a wonder I’m alive.  My therapist pointed it out to me during an intense conversation. “Emily,…

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  • underwater photography of woman
    Real Life | Recovery

    Is It Ever Just a Dream?

    Byemilymingledorff June 7, 2023June 7, 2023

    He reached from the backseat grabbing her neck with his thick, cold hands. Struggling to breathe, her fingers clasped his and loosened his grip, allowing her enough room to reposition her head, then sink her teeth into his wrist…

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  • I'm going on a bear hunt
    Real Life

    I’m Going On A Bear Hunt to Find Myself

    Byemilymingledorff June 7, 2023June 7, 2023

    For instance, if I’m the bear above, I’m thinking, “How did I get here? I’m not doing anything. I have no future…”

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  • Christians can't abandon public schools
    Kids, Education and LOL | Real Life

    Christians Can’t Abandon Public Education – – No Matter How Bad it Gets

    Byemilymingledorff May 15, 2023May 15, 2023

    Where are all the Christians going? 😟 Yes, our public schools are getting worse, but… I know… On top of the poor pay, school shootings, angry parents, and working with admin that won’t/can’t do much to support you (see article below to understand what I’m saying): https://medium.com/illumination/when-youre-an-educator-but-your-boss-calls-you-a-flunky-aff26d5a6c7e Now, there is a very liberal group pushing…

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  • The Day the Pumpkin Flew
    Kids, Education and LOL | Marriage | Real Life

    Two Adults, One Argument & A Pumpkin = A Children’s Book

    Byemilymingledorff May 12, 2023May 12, 2023

    What do you get when you have a married couple, one big argument, and a pumpkin on a planter? Would you believe me if I said a children’s book?Where did you get the idea for your book?It’s the question I’m asked by students at every school and in every interview. “Where did you get the…

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  • photo stormtrooper
    Jesus & Love | Real Life

    In a Galaxy Far, Far Away…

    Byemilymingledorff May 4, 2023May 4, 2023

    There I was, with my seven-year-old daughter, lost, frustrated, late, and wondering if I had completely lost my marbles because Stormtroopers literally surrounded us…in Alabama.

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  • tears on face mental health it's ok
    Real Life

    Mental Health: it’s OK to not be OK.But it’s not OK to ignore it!

    Byemilymingledorff April 24, 2023April 27, 2023

    If you think about it, our mental health is fluid. It ebbs and flows with the ups and downs of life. Job loss, economic crisis, television, the internet, death, war, pandemics, and Presidential elections…all impact our mental health for better or worse.

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  • exotic trees growing in national park on sunny day
    Jesus & Love

    The Scenic Route. Ok, Fine! Lost.

    Byemilymingledorff April 5, 2023April 5, 2023

    After yelling obscenities at Leroy for a few minutes, I remembered the bag phone (this was 1995) I had in the backseat. I grabbed it, unzipped the bag, fumbled with the cord trying to plug it into my cigarette lighter, and called a friend in Oklahoma City.

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  • I see you
    Jesus & Love | Real Life

    I See You!

    Byemilymingledorff April 2, 2023April 26, 2023

    God didn’t fix Danni’s problem; her sister went back to her abusive husband. He didn’t fix my problems. Actually, some of the difficulties my family faces are likely getting worse as days pass

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  • traditional jewish matzo
    Jesus & Love | Kids, Education and LOL

    We’re Not Jewish, but we’ll Celebrate Passover.

    Byemilymingledorff March 24, 2023March 24, 2023

    Hindsight is 20/20. I’m almost 50. As an older and wiser mother, I see areas in which I could’ve done better raising my boys. If I had it to do over, I’d do a few things differently. One is I’d intentionally celebrate Passover with them.

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  • close up shot of a pig
    Jesus & Love

    Sometimes Grace Smells Bad

    Byemilymingledorff March 22, 2023March 21, 2023

    I mean, let’s be honest: everyone has the potential to be the prodigal – the self-centered, wreckless brat; the older brother – the unforgiving, self-righteous jerk; or the father – the merciful leader who shows abundant grace. Shucks, my kids and husband might say I am all three in a day!

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  • Jackson third grade prize
    Jesus & Love | Kids, Education and LOL

    Best. Teacher. Ever.

    Byemilymingledorff March 20, 2023March 20, 2023

    Jackson and his winning third grade science project.

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  • Basketball shoes and ball next play
    Jesus & Love | Kids, Education and LOL | Marriage | Real Life

    Next Play!

    Byemilymingledorff March 17, 2023April 27, 2023

    Get ready for the next play!

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  • ruins of library of celsus
    Marriage | Real Life

    My Miscarriage in Another Country – Part 1

    Byemilymingledorff March 16, 2023May 9, 2023

    Everything was perfect. Except that, I was having a miscarriage, and we were being kicked off the cruise.

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  • Skeletons in My Closet? Yep!
    Jesus & Love | Real Life

    Skeletons in My Closet? Yep!

    Byemilymingledorff March 15, 2023March 15, 2023

    Ok, perhaps I could fit one more bucket behind the marital bucket of bones, but the adolescent skeletons are back there. And behind the adolescent buckets are family of origin bones.

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  • misted window with question mark
    Real Life

    What if I Quit?

    Byemilymingledorff March 13, 2023April 26, 2023

    The “what-if” game is constantly playing inside my brain… But what if I quit?

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  • two boys sitting on a beach chair on the sand
    Kids, Education and LOL | Marriage | Real Life

    Beach Bum or Bum-Bum?

    Byemilymingledorff March 7, 2023April 26, 2023

    The Perfect Set Up It was a beautiful spring day in Naples, Florida. A perfect day for beach bums. The sun was shining, the breeze was gently blowing, and the kids were in the car, ready to go. The easy part was done. Setting up on the beach with small children in tow would be…

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  • Social media applications on mobile
    Jesus & Love | Real Life

    Is there an app for that?

    Byemilymingledorff March 2, 2023March 2, 2023

    Yes – the Reassurance App will remind its purchasers that they are significant because it tells them whenever they need to hear it.

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  • zombie
    Real Life | Recovery

    I’m that guy.

    Byemilymingledorff February 27, 2023April 26, 2023

    I just threw my friend to the zombies so I could get away. I even shot him in the leg, so he would fall, and zombies could devour him while I ran like hell.

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  • Kids, Education and LOL | Real Life

    The WIP Box

    Byemilymingledorff February 26, 2023February 28, 2023

    The work-in-progress box isn’t just a box of “to-do” papers in a second-grade classroom.

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  • diverse guys scoffing at ethnic female teenager on street
    Jesus & Love | Real Life

    Rejecting Rejection

    Byemilymingledorff February 17, 2023April 26, 2023

    Rejection – You don’t own me. My appearance doesn’t define me. I don’t have to please people to find happiness.

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  • couple wearing matching outfit
    Real Life

    Valentine’s Day Isn’t For Lovers

    Byemilymingledorff February 14, 2023April 2, 2023

    I hope my kids remember that Valentine’s Day isn’t only for lovers.

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  • Jesus & Love | Real Life

    Recipe for Disaster

    Byemilymingledorff February 9, 2023April 26, 2023

    I realize my brother had no idea he murdered my pet. He just thought he was doing the same thing we did at the lake, the day before.

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  • Real Life

    God’s Gift of Manna

    Byemilymingledorff February 7, 2023April 27, 2023

    Manna…from heaven. God’s gift to the Israelites in the wilderness. He sent it to satisfy their hunger and remind them God would meet their needs – even when they wandered in the wilderness. And yet… Manna was a gift from God himself. It was a gift from God himself. So, who in their right mind…

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  • halloween decorated room
    Jesus & Love | Real Life

    Skeletons in My Closet 💀

    Byemilymingledorff January 26, 2023May 10, 2023

    skeleton in room with pumpkins

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  • lest we forget tombstone
    Jesus & Love | Real Life

    The Cross on My Wall – From Torture to Treasure

    Byemilymingledorff March 28, 2023March 28, 2023

    McKinley was quiet. She looked around the room, searching for something. Finally, she nodded her head toward the wall. “Mom, why is a Roman torture device hanging on the wall of our house?”

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